Find Your Soulmate

These words are said to be written on the tomb of an Anglican Bishop in the crypts of Westminster Abbey in London, England:

“When I was young and free and my imagination had no limits, I dreamed of changing the world. As I grew older and wiser, I discovered the world would not change, so I shortened my sights somewhat and decided to change only my country.

But, it too, seemed immovable.

As I grew into my twilight years, in one last desperate attempt, I settled for changing only my family, those closest to me, but alas, they would have none of it.

And now as I lie on my deathbed, I suddenly realize: If I had only changed my self first, then by example I would have changed my family.

From their inspiration and encouragement, I would then have been able to better my country and, who knows, I may have even changed the world.”

You are the light that shines for rest of the world. People never change by force…they change by the example of leadership. We all remember that one person from our childhood that we wanted to be like when we grew up. Looking back, even today, we still have an endearing feeling for this individual that we may have never even seen since. The example of good leadership and holding of the light high for all to see not only illuminates our room but the room of others. What kind of example are you setting for others?

Just beyond our peripheral vision lies someone looking at us like we did to our heroes. In the mind of that person, perhaps even a small child, they are thinking of being like you and I when they grow up. They are creating their future selves in our image. What future self are you creating right now for you? Today is the most important day of your life. It’s the day you breathe life into each moment and are surrounded by the total influence of all that you have known. The completeness of who you are culminates in this moment and everything you have ever worked for is here right now.

“Whenever life seems to drift you away from me, I can’t help but cry. You’ve grown to be such a part of me that without you life is no more than a desperate sigh. They do say love comes and goes, and to that I disagree. So, here’s my hand, take it and don’t let go of me.”

“I would rather have one smell of her hair or one touch of her hand than an eternity without it.”

“The ultimate test of a relationship is to disagree, but still hold hands.”

“Life without love is like a tree without blossoms or fruit.”

“Love has no other desire but to fulfill itself. To melt and be like a running brook that sings its melody to the night. To wake at dawn with a winged heart and give thanks for another day of loving.”

“Don’t say you love me unless you really mean it, because I might do something crazy like believe it.

“To be your friend was all I ever wanted; to be your lover was all I ever dreamed.”

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Long distance relationships can be challenging, painful and confusing. But they can be fun and exciting as well! It may even have advantages that a conventional relationship doesn’t have. How can the distance of time and space make a relationship better?

First, the excitement of getting to know someone doesn’t wear thin as quickly. You have to make a more concerted effort to find out about that someone special. Instead of just small talk at a cafe, you will need to write letters, emails or IM. This makes you think harder about what you really want to know about… and it is spread out over a longer period of time. A “Question Of The Day” is fun and exciting. You wait in anticipation for each new day and what the question will be. You know that your partner is listening to the answers because they will have to acknowledge their answers back. Have you ever wondered while on a date if your partner is ever listening? Writing is also passionate and thought out…. no slips of the tongue. And you’ll quickly discover if your partner is even literate.

Another plus is no quick burn out. You have to wait to see this person possibly for weeks or longer.The butterflies of anticipation never seem to cease. It is an exercise in rediscovery. Two strangers constantly falling in love over and over. If you ever wondered what it would be like for the infatuation rollercoaster to never seem to end, a long distance relationship will show you the truth.

Think about discovering new places and things to do. When your partner lives in the same town as you, you probably already know most of the sights, eateries, parks and movie theaters. In fact, you probably have been to all of these places with past romances. If you have to travel to places unknown, your partner can share their world with you. This creates an closeness that is unique and unparalleled in conventional relationships.

Can it be tough? Absolutely. The hardest part is the goodbyes. Longing for the touch of your partner after seeing them is torture. To lay in that empty bed once again and eat alone is hard. But the most rewarding relationships are often born from challenge. What would it mean to your love if it was a constant effort to keep it alive? I think conventional relationships come and go too quickly. It’s too easy to meet, date, make love and be over it in a matter of months. Just look around at the number of relationships that come and go like a the wind.

Never give up on your dreams of being with your soulmate even if it seems impossible. Anything is possible for those who believe in the power of relationships and what they do for you and your world. Love can transverse time and space… your lover can live in your heart forever.

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I am in the middle of writing a book about relationships and life.  The idea being that relationships free your emotions, creativity and sense of wonder and confidence, opening up and attracting into your life wealth, success and happiness. Letting yourself say “yes” to love takes your mind to another place…. a place where you can say “yes” to everything and anything your heart desires. Can’t Buy Me Love?  Perhaps not…. but when you let love into your heart and let down the walls of fear and doubt, you can buy everything else because you’ll attract wealth and happiness!

But that is not the point of this post. While writing this book, I have had to look at so many past events in my life. I had to remember the event, relive it and play it back in my head, and then describe it to my readers with some kind of point to it and put it on paper. After hundreds of times of doing this, I truly realize just how large, unique and wonderous my life has been so far. It was like watching an inspirational movie about me, for me. I have seen the good, bad and indifferent. I have remembered powerful events that have faded slightly and brought them back to life. I have understood the stories with a new way of seeing them that are far different than the original interpretation. And I have seen true value to my life….

If you haven’t realized lately just how much of a life you have already lived… try writing a book. Even just a journal would help. You see just how large and wild your life has been. I have lived a great life…. and so have you. We just need to remind ourselves of that when we can. Speaking of books…… go ahead and get a copy of my ebook for free as a gift to you. Find out who I am…..

I have a belief system that I hold very dear. It shows me that the things I see, dream and imagine in my head really happen whether I take physical action on them or not. They are called probable realities and they have a life of their own in their own universal existence. I take full responsibility for creating the next moments of my life and I use visualization to make my dreams come true. Especially where love is concerned.

If there is someone that I want to connect with further, I visualize them inside of my head…talking, sharing, making love…envisioning them as a part of my life. Anyone can do this. It focuses your desires and dreams. It tells your mind that someone is important enough to shed fear for, eliminate doubt and give yourself permission to love. These are the very common limiting beliefs that generally keep us from taking action when we meet someone special. It’s never about the way you look or how much stuff you have. It’s all about saying “I can.”

Visualizing removes that doubt. You see what can really be for you. When you visualize, you take it to the next level beyond daydreaming…you can feel, smell, touch and hear everything about the object of your desire. If you see it as real…it is…in a very physical reality of probability. This action has just created the next moment of your reality. It has removed all objection in your mind and soul. You now know you have to take the actions to make it happen.

Creating the love you desire is in your power. You hold the keys to happiness and always have. But it’s more than just hope, you have to know it as real. Just wanting is not enough. You will wholeheartedly believe it can be true. Your dreams are more than just dreams…they are your canvas where you paint the next moment of your life. If you only knew….

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Love is alive. It is inside of you and all around. It is more than just an emotion….it is a living, breathing thing.

It’s easy sometimes to hole your feelings up inside you tightly. Not because you are afraid, but from pure neglect to bring them to life. But when you do, the world can see it. Love is viral. It is an energy that spreads from one person to the next and awakens those feelings in everyone you meet. When you express love, either for yourself or someone special, watch the fire spread to those around you…it is something beautiful to behold.

Have you ever seen a couple sitting away from everyone else in a crowded room totally immersed in their own world? They are touching, kissing, discovering each other completely unaware of anyone else on the planet. They believe no one sees them. But the entire room knows they are there. The energy from a single act of passion lights the room like fireworks in the minds of everyone else. Feelings of love and peace well up in all who witness…and they will go home and embrace their passion as well. If love were visible to the naked eye, it would look like a massive lightning storm or supernova contained in one little room. It ignites the passion of all….

When you express love to that degree, it will attract love from all corners of your life. This attraction is real and it works. If you allow yourself to be loved, show love and accept love you will attract it heavily into your life. Turn this power on for yourself and see what happens…..

Learn to embrace the power of love and watch the fireworks show begin!

On my radio show with my partner Gabriella Hartwell, we have a segment coming soon about transitioning from one relationship to another.  She is going through just that….and believes that the new kind relationship dictates that instead of the Ego stressing to “keep” your partner from ever leaving or thinking “what am I going to do now…how will I live without this person?” we will learn to see that each relationship teaches us and heals us in certain ways to prepare us for more rewarding relationships next time.

Personally, I figure it’s hard to do. During my divorce, I would have done anything at that time to keep from losing my wife. I felt that there would be no way to live without her. There was nothing I could do to keep her in my life, no matter how hard I tried.  After many years of pain, I finally grew to realize that I have become a stronger person because of the experience. I learned and healed and became a better man for my next relationship. Our transition was a neccessary lesson in growth that I could have learned from much sooner had I not let my Ego take control.

Gabriella is right on about this. No matter how painful, each relationship is a spititual healing when they conclude and we move on to our next soulmate with pride and honor for the ride they have given to us. I know this once again because of a relationship I had with a special person this weekend. A fairy tale romance that we all dream of but rarely happens. A ride of beauty that only happens in the movies…a once in a lifetime experience of love, connection, desire and dreams. A relationship so precious that it should last a hundred lifetimes, and yet I had to let it go. The time was not yet right…..

It seems now to make perfect sense. I truly understand the “letting go” process. It’s something we all have to understand for our healings to take place. As painful as it is, the choice to let it be was perfect….and I am truly grateful for the moments that money cannot buy.

Learn to let go of the pain…..and discover your inner beauty.

Affirmations

By holding positive thoughts of a loving nature we will attract into
life people and events to support our positive expectations.
Affirmations are an excellent way to enhance this process.

This is clearly illustrated in the biblical advice:
“…as you sow, so shall you reap.” When we make a conscious practice
of this in a positive manner we will reap a harvest of like quality.

Pick an affirmation. Repeat 20 times in the morning and 20 times
before bed.

* My attitude about myself is the direct key to meeting my soulmate.

* In spite of my fear and anxiety, I deeply and profoundly love,
accept and respect myself.

* I won’t fall to jealous feelings because I know that I am the most
special and deserving of this relationship with him/her.

* As I think, so my life will become.

* In life I always get what I give out and I always give out love.

* As I follow the path of forgiveness, life becomes a new, clean
slate on which I can draw my new life plan as I wish.

* My high self esteem allows me to accept compliments easily and
also freely complimant others.

* It matters little what others say. What matters is how I react
and what others say.

* I love myself in totality and I radiate energy.

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Love Happens

When you really know what makes you happy…love happens.

When you see a sunny day even if others think it’s raining
…love happens.

When you see the most beautiful person in the world, but were actually
looking in the mirror…love happens.

When the fear of meeting a stranger turns into the joy of connecting
with a friend…love happens.

When you accomplish a task that 10 minutes earlier you told yourself
you could NOT do…love happens.

When you extend your hand to others and they don’t even say “thank you”
….love happens.

When you realize that the whole of you is really just millions of
perfect little moments…love happens.

When you feel like a giant, but your only 5′ 2″…love happens.

Love happens when you love yourself,
There is no luck, there is no chance.
Know the peace of holding hands with God,
and don’t sit out this dance…

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Love is the state of oneness with a supposed stranger….. a person
who maybe only a few short months earlier was completely unknown to
us. Is it possible to be swept into a whirlwind of emotions by
someone we have just met? Does “love at first sight” really exist
or is it just our own wishful thinking to be cared for unconditionally
by another? I believe it does.

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